Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude.

- 1 Corinthians 13:4

How often have you seen a need and thought, “I want to take care of that?”

Maybe God brings someone to mind prompting you to send them a card or give them a call. Or perhaps it is something random.

You see a need, like a person in a grocery line short on cash or an older person struggling to reach something, and you step in and help them.

It’s satisfying to help. It makes you feel good.

Now let’s flip it. Have you ever felt prompted to do something for someone but let the urge pass?

Did you regret it?

I am reminded that God will accomplish His good and perfect plans, with or without me.

However, I miss the blessing when I don’t act on His urgings.

Being kind isn’t always easy. Certain things in life can test your patience and alter your mood.

For example, you may have a strained relationship with a family member or a friend, a conflict at work, or something that is just a trigger for you.

However, God calls us to be kind and patient. His Word tells us not to envy, boast or be arrogant or rude.

When we give in to our desires instead of following God’s ways, we only hurt ourselves and weigh our hearts down with things we were never intended to carry.

Prayer: Jesus, help me to be keen to the needs of those around me. Enable me to have your heart and treat others in a way that honors you. Amen.

With Love,
Sherry Shepherd

The love described in Scripture isn't based on convenience or emotion. It's a reflection of God's character at work within us. As you spend time journaling today, ask the Lord to reveal areas where He is helping you grow in patience, kindness, and grace. Allow His love to shape the way you care for yourself and those around you.

Journal & Reflect

• Who in your life has demonstrated Christlike patience and kindness toward you?
• In what relationship is God inviting you to practice greater patience right now?
• How can you intentionally show kindness today, even in small ways?  

Frequently Asked Questions

What does 1 Corinthians 13:4 teach about love?

This verse teaches that genuine love is characterized by patience and kindness. It reflects God's heart and guides how we treat others.

Why are patience and kindness important in relationships?

They help build trust, strengthen communication, and demonstrate grace during both joyful and challenging seasons.

How can I become more patient and kind?

Spend time with God in prayer, ask the Holy Spirit to shape your character, and practice responding thoughtfully rather than reacting impulsively.

Does biblical love depend on feelings?

No. Biblical love is rooted in commitment, action, and selflessness rather than temporary emotions. 

Prayer 

Father, Thank You for showing me perfect love through Jesus. Your patience with me is greater than I can comprehend, and Your kindness has carried me through countless seasons. Help me reflect that same love to others. Teach me to respond with patience when I am frustrated, kindness when I am challenged, and grace when it is difficult. Continue shaping my heart so that my words and actions honor You and bless those around me. In Jesus' name, Amen. Amen.

Message from Kara

Love is one of the most beautiful ways we reflect Christ to the world around us. Yet if we're honest, patience and kindness don't always come naturally. That's why I'm grateful that God doesn't ask us to manufacture love on our own—He grows it within us as we stay close to Him. Today, I encourage you to pay attention to the small opportunities God places before you. A kind word, a patient response, a moment of grace—these simple acts often become powerful reflections of His love. May His love continue to transform your heart and overflow into every relationship you have.
With gratitude,
Kara 

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