You are my friend if you do what I command you. No longer do I call you servant, for the servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friend, for all that I have heard from my Father I have made known to you.

- John 15:14-15

How amazing is it that the God of the universe calls us His friend? No other king or god recorded in history desired such a close relationship with their people. In this verse, Jesus is expressing how everything the Father made known to Him, he has made known to us as well.

The Lord wants to know you on such a deep level, that He desires to share His own thoughts and secrets with you. He does not hide Himself away or only make Himself available to a select few. We do not have to wait hours in line or make an appointment to seek an audience with Him. No, He wants to know each of us on a personal level in a way nobody else in creation ever could. There is no other king like Jesus.

Not only is God our best friend, He is our King and the lover of our soul. He is everything the world cannot give. We don’t need to put up a front or “fix ourselves” in order to come before His throne and commune with Him.

Today, talk to God the way you would a good friend. Know that He is always willing to listen and yearns to share His heart and thoughts with you.  

With Love,
Sarah Sherstad

Use This in Your Personalized Scripture Journal

As you reflect on John 15:14–15, take time to write through these prompts:

·       What does it mean to me that Jesus calls me His friend?

·       Do I view my relationship with Him as distant or personal?

·       Where is He inviting me into deeper obedience?

·       Am I listening for His voice daily?

·       How can I grow in intimacy with Him this week?

Jesus shifts the language from servant to friend — not because we earn it, but because He invites us into relationship.

Use this space to write a prayer asking God to deepen your awareness of His nearness and guidance.

Frequently Asked Questions

What does John 15:14–15 mean?
Jesus tells His disciples they are no longer merely servants but friends, because He has revealed to them what the Father has made known to Him.

What does it mean to be a friend of Jesus?
It means living in close relationship with Him — marked by obedience, trust, and shared purpose.

Is obedience required for friendship with Jesus?
Obedience flows from love. It is not about earning friendship but responding to His invitation.

How can I grow closer to Jesus daily?
Through consistent prayer, Scripture reflection, and intentional time in His presence.

How does journaling help deepen intimacy with God?
Writing prayers and reflections helps you recognize patterns, hear His voice more clearly, and respond with intentional faith.